BODY IMAGE ISSUES writes:
Hi Khanyi, I’m a 22-year-old man and I’m fat. I’ve never been in a relationship. I’m always rejected because I’m fat, so my question is why don’t you ladies like fat men/boys?
BROTHER! I WILL TRY AND SAY THIS IN THE MOST FRANK AND HONEST WAYEVER: It’s not about size – it’s about confidence. I guess it also depends on what kind of girl you’re attracted to. The material girl type might not give you the kind of attention you want. But is that who youreally want attention from?
True love finds you, you don’t find it. So my advice is: Eat right and hit the gym, just to stay healthy. Women love men who look after themselves, and they love men with confidence. You are bound to find someone thatway – fat or skinny. KEEP IT!
TOO BUSY FOR LOVE writes:
I’m a 24-year-old who is in a relationship with a 32-year-old man. I love my man so much, but feel our busyschedules are getting in the way of our love life. We don’t have fun any more. We’ve stopped doing things togetherbecause of work. How do we get back on track? I miss those days, but I’m finding it hard to juggle work and love – and we also both have kids. He recently went back to school and I joined the gym, so I’m constantly tired and so is he. How do we do this without falling out of love?
MY LOVE, YOU’RE NOT ALONE! I too struggle with that, but no one is busy for 24 hours. We need to structure our leisure time with eachother like an appointment. Money and success are great, but what’s the use of having it all with no one to share it with?
If this man is the one, then finding time to commit to each other shouldn’t be an issue.
As much as we can make time for our careers, we can make time for our lovers as well. KEEP IT!
BEGGING FOR LOVE writes:
Hi Khanyi, I’m a 22-year-old girl and I’ve had a crush on this guy for two years now. I can’t stop thinking about him. I even pray for him more than I pray for myself. I sent him SMSes telling him how I feel about him, but he neverreplied. His friends insist that he’s just shy and has been hurt in the past. I love this guy so much. A part of me tells me to give up on him and move on, but the other part just doesn’t allow me to give up. Should I let it go or should I keep on begging for his love?
I SAY THIS EVERY WEEK: LOVE IS KIND, LOVE IS GENTLE AND LOVE IS EASY. You should never have to beg or grovel, once it’s forced it’s no longer love, but an obsession. You need to sit him down and talk. If he refuses, then you’re wasting your time. KICK IT! Know your worth!
Source@DailySun
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