Lagos state conceived Princess Adunni Adediran who has dependably felt weak at the knees over impacting the general public is clearly brimming with incredible thoughts. The fruitful agent, mother and humanitarian who will be checking 70 in couple of months to come identifies with Vanguard about her anticipate called ‘Nigerian Vi rgin Girls’. The task is adapted at compensating chastity among young ladies in Nigeria.
Read extracts beneath:
How did observing Vi rgins occur?
At a point, I began thinking about our old individuals in this nation, so I distributed ‘Delicate Fit’, a magazine that was managing powerless appendages of the elderly. Alhaji Lateef Jakande adored it and said the production was even over due. As I was doing that, I envisioned 11 times where I composed ‘Perceiving and empowering the Vi rgins in Nigeria’. That is the means by which I began the task in 2007.
Why has there not been consistency in arranging the yearly occasion?
I addresses the who-will be who in this nation for sponsorship such Princess Erelu Dosunmu, Late Ambassador Segun Olusola and numerous others. A great deal of them demonstrated their enthusiasm to help however we didn’t get supporters aside from the proprietor of Emily Millionaire beautifying agents, Joe Brown, who was giving us beatufiers.
Rado was giving us wrist watches to appropriate to the Vi rgins. The particular case that truly touched me was the help we got from the previous Arch Bishop of Lagos, Diocese, Olubumni Okogie (rtrd). I am happy he admired that we are doing something great.
We composed a letter to the Lagos State Government yet didn’t get an answer however they gave us the Banquet Hall where the occasion occurred. Monetarily, an essential identity in the Lagos State Government gave us N250,000 in 2009. We might likewise want to work together with NACA. This task should be an aggregate obligation of each Nigerian.
Regardless of the difficulties we are confronting in sorting out the yearly festival, a considerable measure of Vi rgins originated from Enugu, Aba, Delta, Onitsha, Port Harcourt, Lagos, Kaduna, Kano and Abuja. I even sold my home in Ikorodu, Lagos to host and support Vi rgins. We likewise got undermining telephone calls from some exceptionally put men in the public arena debilitating to execute me on the off chance that I didn’t quit observing Vi rgins. They said I am aggravating their good times.
So what altered your opinion?
For quite a long time, I was strolling like a living body on the grounds that I couldn’t keep on hosting the yearly occasion for Vi rgins. It is shocking.
To see a Vi rgin in the cutting edge Nigeria is not regular. How would you find out their Vi rginity?
A gynecologist, Dr. Naheem-Deen Ekemode, who has honed for over 40 years, was doing that for us. Inside of a second, he will know whether somebody is a Vi rgin or not but rather a few folks began scowling about it.
Yet, are there still Vi rgins amongst women of eligible age?
I have Vi rgins even in my home. My own particular girl got hitched as a Vi rgin at 29. There are numerous Vi rgins in this nation yet they are bashful to turn out in light of the fact that their wayward companions mock at them. They call them tricks in light of the fact that they need to ruin their lives before marriage and there is nothing all the more fascinating and great one future glad for than keeping one’s Vi rginity. Actually, God cherishes it on the grounds that I heard the voice a few times, encouraging me to go and support Vi rgins and I won’t stop it till my downfall.
Most men grumble that wedding a Vi rgin gives them concern. To them, it is similar to relating with some person who can’t fulfill them s exually.
They are stating it on the grounds that they are in uncertainty of the genuineness of our case that there are still Vi rgins. They realize that on the off chance that they wed a Vi rgin, they have confirmation that they are wedding some person who has not messed around with her womb or who has not contracted s exually transmitted sicknesses. You can’t pose as a viable rival utilized motor with a shiny new one. Men are not sensible. All these they are talking that it is hard to get Vi rgins is not genuine. A few men will utilize these young ladies, de-bloom some of them and toward the day’s end, they will forsake them and pursue another young lady.
We are in year of 21st Century with web related s exual exercises. How would we watch that?
Our business is to energize Vi rginity, to wake up folks and instruct them to roll out an improvement in life of a young lady in their grasp. It is similar to Sodom and Gomorrah. Men will do it and go free, albeit some of them will contract Vi rgins and won’t have the capacity to impregnate their wife. Men too ought to remain Vi rgins till they wed. In premarital s ex, men will squander imperative kids incorporating presidents in their body before getting hitched.
What do you instruct these young ladies?
Step by step instructions to avoid according to their uncles, educators, instructors and companions. We will show them how to minimize going to places where they will place something in their beverage and assault them.
Be that as it may, to what extent can one remain a Vi rgin?
It is bad to remain a Vi rgin till over 30 years. When you are in your 20s, ask and request that God give you a spouse. Try not to go in the late hours. I have a 21-year-old Vi rgin living with me. I generally encourage all her Vi rginity.
Have you ever been tested due to this task?
I have got a ton of humiliating inquiries and remarks yet I am not annoyed.
A few individuals sent me instant messages and some of them called me and said that I am insane. One of them said, “Why are you blocking us from getting a charge out of the Vi rgins God made accessible for us?”
What are the criteria for winning the first prize at the Miss Vi rginity Contest?
The scholarly ability, legs, appearances and carriage are parts of the criteria. We are more inspired by the magnificence from inside so we need to know how clever they are.
What exhortation do you have for women in Nigeria?
On the off chance that you are a Vi rgin, remain so until you are hitched. In the event that you are not, put a stop to having s ex till you get hitched. On the off chance that you have been deceived by an inverse s ex, take heart.
We need to catch them youthful and verify that some s exually transmitted ailments are decreased to the barest least in Nigeria. They are doing it in Ghana, South Africa, Japan etc.
I need Nigerians to meet up and help control s ex before marriage to spare our future.
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