• Home
  • News
    • Top Post
    • Foreign
    • National
    • Politics
  • Sport
  • Relationships
    • Dating Tips
    • Love & Sex
  • Lifestyle
    • Fashion
    • Events
    • Health & Fitness
    • Inspiration
  • Entertainment
    • Gist and Gossip
    • Movies & TV
    • Videos
  • Music
    • African
    • American
    • European
    • Music Video
  • MARKETPLACE
    • Business
      • Investment
    • Careers
  • Log in
RoyaltyGist
  • June 30th, 2022
  • Contact
  • About
  • Advertise
  • Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • RoyaltyGist App
  • Log in
RoyaltyGist

London, United kingdom

  • Home
  • News
    • Top Post
    • Foreign
    • National
    • Politics
  • Sport
  • Relationships
    • Dating Tips
    • Love & Sex
  • Lifestyle
    • Fashion
    • Events
    • Health & Fitness
    • Inspiration
  • Entertainment
    • Gist and Gossip
    • Movies & TV
    • Videos
  • Music
    • African
    • American
    • European
    • Music Video
  • MARKETPLACE
    • Business
      • Investment
    • Careers
  • Follow
    • Facebook
    • Twitter
    • Google+
    • RSS
Home
Relationships
Dating Tips

12 Things You Should Absolutely NEVER Say To Your Man (Like, Ever)

May 6th, 2016 Royaltygist Dating Tips 0 comments 104

Facebook Twitter Google+ LinkedIn Pinterest

There are some questions that remain debatable in the dating circuit. Should there forever remain an element of mystery? Should women be expected to uphold a certain sense of societal prim and properness? Or has the notion of being ladylike died with generation’s past?

I go back and forth with this a lot, and while I preach equality through and through, I’m also a woman who no matter how comfortable I am in front of a man, likes to maintain certain standards. Some of these illustrate concepts larger than cosmetics and hygiene, and some of them are just plainly matters of vanity.

Here are 12 things you should never, ever say to your boyfriend.

1. “I’m having money troubles.”

There should be a very distinct separation between your finances and your partner’s finances. I’m not saying he can’t lend you 20 dollars here and there, but beyond that it creates an unnecessary power dynamic. Look to friends or family for help first. Hell, take on a second job if you have to.

2. “I need you.”

There’s a big difference between “I need your help” and “I need you.” Asking him to jump-start your car is one thing; needing him to sustain your happiness is another. You should want your man, not need him. Expressing a desire of need is doing a disservice to your independence and will most likely push him away.

3. “I don’t like your friends.”

So long as his friends have no negative effect on your relationship, there’s no sense in making waves just because you don’t vibe well with them. Sometimes relationships require sacrifices and this may be one of them.

4. “I need to use the bathroom.”

To be fair, saying, “I need to use the bathroom” is entirely acceptable. Perhaps I should be more specific/vulgar. Avoid telling your boyfriend that you need to take a sh*t. It’s a huge romance killer.

5. “I’m leaking.”

There’s absolutely nothing shameful about getting your period. You should never feel uneasy (aside from the cramps) about speaking openly about menstruation. However, men just generally don’t understand. I see no sense in speaking to them about it, let alone when something uncomfortable happens (that unfortunately ruins both your jeans and underwear).

6. “Your friend is really attractive.”

Contrary to not liking his friends, there may be a situation where you like his friends a little too much. He’s probably confident in both his looks and the love you share, but it’s not cool to force him to compare himself to someone he has a friendship with. Guys may be less jealous than women by nature, but that doesn’t mean a sentence like this wouldn’t bug him.

7. “My ex was really well-endowed.”

It’s not OK to put thoughts like this in your boyfriend’s head. Not saying this to your man is pretty obvious, but you never know what might come out of your mouth during moments of anger or even just complete openness.

9. “I hate my [insert body part].”

By declaring that you hate a certain part of your body, you’re putting your boyfriend in an uncomfortable situation. Chances are he thinks you’re beautiful and loves all of you, but it may be saddening to him to hear you say such things. As your boyfriend, he wants you to not only accept him, but yourself entirely.

10. “I have to tell you something about (best friend’s name) but you can’t tell anyone.”

Much like you have a certain sense of loyalty to your boyfriend, you should share that same loyalty with your best friend. Unless she happens to be in harm and the situation is beyond your control (meaning you need help), there’s no reason to spill any of her secrets. Sometimes things are just too juicy to keep to quiet about, but do yourself a favor and reflect in a diary or to your therapist.

11. “Are you really going to wear that?”

You don’t want your boyfriend commenting on your style choices, right? Well, you should return that same kindness to him. If you’re going to a black tie event and he has sweatpants on, then go right ahead and say something. Otherwise, it’s not worth the fight.

Place your ad here
Loading… Get Our Top Stories Everyday, Enter Your Email Address:Original Article

Facebook Twitter Google+ LinkedIn Pinterest
Next article 10 Signs You Are Acting Single While Married?
Previous article More s*xual experience before marriage is actually NOT a good thing

Related Posts

Dating Tips

10 most common questions married couples have about s*x

It happens all the time. Couples get married and expect their s*x life to be just like they see in the...
Dating Tips

10 Signs You Are Acting Single While Married?

In order to make a relationship work, I believe there are certain behaviors married folks just shouldn’t...
Dating Tips

If You’re Not Feeling These 12 Things, It Isn’t True Love

If You’re Not Feeling These 12 Things, It Isn’t True Love 1. Romantic love. We all know the...
Dating Tips

10 Quick Facts About The Clit ALL Girls (And Guys!) Should Know

A little info goes a long way. 1. The cli**ris is the only organ in the human body (either male or female)...
Dating Tips

9 things married men need to stop doing

This is not a comprehensive list, but these are some of the most common bad habits of many married men. If...
Dating Tips

17 things you absolutely need to stop doing in order to make your life amazing

The best way to stay miserable is by avoiding change. If you want to see improvements in your life, then you...
Dating Tips

More s*xual experience before marriage is actually NOT a good thing

“Practice makes perfect,” or does it? For most of life’s circumstances, more experience means more...
Dating Tips

If Jay-Z Actually Cheated on Beyoncé, It’s Because He Didn’t Do This One Thing

I don’t know if Jay-Z cheated on Beyoncé or not. We may never know the truth. But if he did…if he...
9 Adorable Ways You Can Make Your Husband Blush Dating Tips

9 Adorable Ways You Can Make Your Husband Blush

10 BEAUTIFUL Things That Happen When You Learn To Love Being Alone Dating Tips

10 BEAUTIFUL Things That Happen When You Learn To Love Being Alone

Rock Your Husband’s World With This 4 Tips Tonight!!! Dating Tips

Rock Your Husband’s World With This 4 Tips Tonight!!!

LADIES!!! 5 Things That Happen To Your Body During s*x Dating Tips

LADIES!!! 5 Things That Happen To Your Body During s*x

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Timeline

Nov 11th 1:34 PM
News

Me Coach Penis Enlargement Review

Nov 8th 12:00 PM
Business

The Best Bitcoin and Crypto Wallets

Oct 12th 5:36 PM
Business

Invest commission-free with Freetrade. Get started with a free share worth £3-£200.

Oct 23rd 10:28 AM
News

Biden will ‘campaign aggressively’ in final stretch, top aide insists

Oct 23rd 10:28 AM
News

Trump’s debate mic appeared to cut off during health care answer

Tags

2014 actress after Beyoncé boko chris Davido Ebola from Girl girls good haram have husband jonathan lady Lagos love meet music News Nigeria Nigerian OMG over photos pics: pictures: Police President releases Rihanna shares their this very Video what wife will with woman WoW year

Weekly Quote

Advertise With Us

Recent Comments

  • Samuel Philip on New mobile technology for hard workers; TECNO tablet division unveils latest Droipad 7C Pro, Do more with the Power of PAD + PHONE
  • Jason on Relationship Aid
  • mope hammed on Photos: Meet the girl being called the sexiest Haitian woman in the #world #fashion
  • Bridal Fabric on Photos: Dencia steps out in lace-up over-the-knee Tom Ford boots
  • vicks on Yul Edochie Exposes The Man Who Has Been Harassing Him #Sexually

Interesting Gist

Conservation: Pangolins in peril

Entertainment Jan 24th, 2019
7 Firewood Traders Still Missing After Boko Haram Strike In Borno Entertainment

7 Firewood Traders Still Missing After Boko Haram Strike In Borno

Jan 27th, 2016
Entertainment

Tyga Arrested During Video Shoot

Nov 11th, 2014
VIDEO: Phyno – Yayo Music

VIDEO: Phyno – Yayo

Jan 6th, 2015
Sesame Street Create ‘House Of Cards’ Parody [VIDEO] Entertainment

Sesame Street Create ‘House Of Cards’ Parody [VIDEO]

Feb 25th, 2015
BREAKING: Nigerian Senate announces recruitment, SEE details Entertainment

BREAKING: Nigerian Senate announces recruitment, SEE details

Sep 1st, 2016
Watch Leriq & Wande Coal dazzle in 'Wishlist' video at Kajuru castle in Kaduna Music

Watch Leriq & Wande Coal dazzle in 'Wishlist' video at Kajuru castle in Kaduna

Feb 24th, 2016
Beyoncé attends US open with husband Jay Z, flashes boobs Entertainment

Beyoncé attends US open with husband Jay Z, flashes boobs

Sep 2nd, 2016
Critical Mass: Leonardo DiCaprio 's role in The Revenant is already the stuff of legend Entertainment

Critical Mass: Leonardo DiCaprio 's role in The Revenant is already the stuff of legend

Jan 9th, 2016
Did Drake hit on Lebanese porn star, Mia Khalifa? She says it was cringe-worthy Entertainment

Did Drake hit on Lebanese porn star, Mia Khalifa? She says it was cringe-worthy

Jan 28th, 2015

This week Photo

Jim Iyke
3
140828112207-08-surprise-celeb-marriages-horizontal-large-gallery
article-2339254-1A397E05000005DC-889_634x807
Cowboys Eagles Football
the_great_gatsby_trailer-e1442672129961
Jessica-Alba-Honest-Beauty-Campaign-1
  • Home
  • News
  • Sport
  • Relationships
  • Lifestyle
  • Entertainment
  • Music
  • MARKETPLACE
  • Back to top

Pages

  • About
  • Activate
  • Advertise
  • Become A Blogger
  • careers
  • Contact
  • Disclaimer
  • Homepage
  • jobs
  • MARKETPLACE
  • Movies
  • Privacy Policy
© RoyaltyGist 2014 - 2021. All rights reserved.
Produced by Royaltygist
Posting....