Most Nigerian women have met these types of men in her life. And the worst thing is that she believes that she can easily change them.
But really it is better to stay alone than to get married to these kinds of guys…
1. Still adores his ex
You probably know that type. He says that he loves you and that it is over between he and his ex, but he continues to compare you with his ex-girlfriend. He won’t be able to show you the love you deserve until he is over her. And this can last for ages.
2. Unready for serious relationships
There are a lot of guys that when dating a girl, and the relationship progresses or he decides that he is not interested in you, he just mentions that he is not ready for a serious relationship. You begin to wonder if he was really not ready for a marriage or it was just an excuse to dump you.
No, it is not about the perfect guys. It is about guys who are always wondering if you are not his perfect girlfriend. And who often wonders if a better version of you is waiting for him somewhere. These kinds of men are just not worth your attention.
4. The one who still manages his career
If a guy is older than 35 and he is still unsure about what his dream job is, or a man who is not currently working or doing different kinds of odd jobs all the time, he is unlikely to settle down soon. Nigerian men like to settle their careers before proposing, don’t forget that.
5. He has never dated anyone
If a guy seems to be nice, mature and says to you that he is ready for marriage, even though he has never been in a relationship, it could be a trap. Why was he single all these time? He might be hiding something from you.
6. He believes in polygamy
This pretty boy is stating that polygamy is essential for men. In reality he just seeks some excuses for cheating. And do you want to live all your life with a guy who from the beginning says that he will be unfaithful? Probably not.